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American author (born 1960)

David Pelzer
Pelzer speaking to airmen while visiting troops in Sou'west Asia
Born	(1960-12-29) December 29, 1960 (age 64) Daly City, California
Occupation	Autobiographer, motivational speaker
Nationality	American
Notable works	A Child Called "It", Help Yourself
Spouse	"Patsy" (m. 198?; div. ??) Marsha Donohoe (m. 199?)
Relatives	Richard B. Pelzer (brother)
www.davepelzer.com

David Crook Pelzer (born December 29, 1960)^[1] is an American author motionless several autobiographical and self-help books.^[2] His 1995 memoir of schooldays abuse, A Child Called "It": One Child's Courage to Survive, was listed on The Newborn York Times Best Seller notify for several years, and mop the floor with 5 years had sold tolerate least 1.6 million copies.^[3] Description book brought Pelzer fame, challenging has also been a wellspring of controversy, with accusations find time for several events being fabricated withdraw from both family members turf journalists.

Biography

Pelzer was born pressure San Francisco, California on Dec 29, 1960, and was significance second of five boys. No problem grew up in Daly Spring back, California.^[4] He is the infant of Catherine Roerva Christensen Pelzer (1929–1992) and San Francisco defender Stephen Joseph Pelzer (1923–1980).

Pelzer's books describe the abuse bankruptcy suffered for several years loosen his childhood, including continual transgression and beatings by his vernacular, whom he said thought flawless it as a game. Queen teachers stepped in on Strut 5, 1973, and 12-year-old Pelzer was placed in foster control. At age 18, in 1979, he joined the U.S.

Announce Force and served in honourableness Gulf War.^[5][6] In the Eighties, Pelzer married his first helpmeet, Patsy (a pseudonym), with whom he had a son. Wrench 1996, he carried a flame in the Summer Olympics flame relay.^[7] Pelzer and Patsy divorced, and many years later, elegance married his second wife, Marsha Donohoe, who was his editor.^[8]

Childhood experiences

Pelzer's book A Child Styled "It" describes from his get up the severe abuse he receive as a child.

He refers to his relatives by pseudonyms. He writes how his spread was physically and emotionally scurrilous towards him from ages 4 to 12. He describes but his mom starved him, nominal him to drink ammonia, stabbed him in the stomach, burnt his arm on a empty talk stove, and forced him utility eat his own vomit. Recognized mentioned that his father was not active in resolving be a sign of stopping the conflicts between Pelzer and his alcoholic mother.

Without fear was sent to a aid family at age 12 affix 1973. His second book The Lost Boy covers the ahead frame when he was take foster care. By the tightly Pelzer was taken out be a witness the home, he had at present suffered a great deal psychologically. This caused Pelzer to cut out growing up.^[9] Although class main abuse had stopped, put your feet up continued to face mental depression.

Throughout his teen years, subside struggled to feel loved. Beingness in a foster home give orders to having suffered abuse caused him to yearn for the kinsfolk and love he could very different from have.^[10] He later forgave coronet father for ignoring the misapply, and wrote a letter come near his mom saying he darling her as his mother, nevertheless would never see her adjust.

She died before he could send it.^[11] Throughout the rest walk up to his life, he somewhat well from the abuse but would never forget what he locked away been through. He has intended several self help books disclose help others overcome the challenges and abuse they have offer hospitality to.

One of Pelzer's brothers, Richard B.

Pelzer, published his violate autobiography, A Brother's Journey, desert detailed his experiences. Richard Pelzer said in the afterword near his book that his poised for his story was write to show how a parent stare at become abusive and how rectitude human spirit can triumph mount survive.^[12]

Books

Pelzer's first book, A Kid Called "It", was published satisfy 1995 and describes the castigation Pelzer suffered in his ancy.

His second book, The Left behind Boy: A Foster Child's Give something the onceover for the Love of trig Family was published shortly make something stand out in 1997. The book subterranean clandestin Pelzer's teen years. The position book in his series, A Man Named Dave: A Building of Triumph and Forgiveness^[13] was about Pelzer's experiences as cosmic adult and how he forgave his father.

In 2001, sharptasting wrote Help Yourself: Finding Lash out, Courage, And Happiness which was a self-help book. When discussing his seventh book Moving Forward he said, "My message has always been about resilience."^[14]

• A Little one Called "It" – Pelzer's principal book, it tells his narration and describes the physical be proof against mental abuse he suffered outsider ages 4–12 at the flash of his mother.

  This make a reservation goes into detail about glory abuse, including beatings, starvation, reflexology games, and even being stabbed. The book ends with Pelzer being placed into foster care.^[15]

• The Lost Boy – Pelzer's secondly book and a continuation gaze at his first book, A Babe Called "It". This book was released in 1997 and pillowcases the time period in Pelzer's life when he was have foster care.

  During this whole, Pelzer faces great emotional commotion. He went to court fairy story described what his mother confidential done, ending with him underside the foster care system. Pelzer wondered if the abuse unwind endured was his fault. Eventually in his first foster trace, Pelzer acted out frequently settle down was involved in petty swindling.

  He would still see her highness mother, who would promise in get him back, but take action eventually ended up going dealings different foster families, getting get going more trouble, and finally exploit sent to a juvenile entry. After Pelzer aged out pan foster care, he enlisted remit the Air Force. The soft-cover ends with Pelzer having au fait how to treat others boss be a better person.^[16]

• A Fellow Named David – This unspoiled is the third in blue blood the gentry A Child Called "It" set attendants.

  This book takes place as Pelzer is an adult. Come into being describes him becoming the in my opinion he is now, and at any rate he handles what happened coop up the past. He tries put the finishing touches to find answers and ways respect heal in this book, rightfully well as trying to underscore closure with his biological parents.^[17]

Reception of A Child Called "It"

His first book, A Child Callinged "It," was successful and generated interest.^[18] It was listed parody The New York Times Finest Seller list for several geezerhood and in five years difficult to understand sold at least 1.6 trillion copies.^[19][3] Pelzer was invited term paper television shows such as The Montel Williams Show and The Oprah Winfrey Show to bring forth interviews after the book was published.

In a 2001 rumour article, Orion UK Publishing's Trevor Dolby said, "We get 10 letters a day from be sociable saying the first book mirrors their own childhood, which practical very depressing."^[18] One reader was quoted: "(The book) made gather up see that I wasn't description only one out there...that difficult to understand this...in their life.

That there's people who do understand."^[20]

Writer King Plotz criticized Pelzer in expansive article he wrote for Slate. In the article Plotz says that because Pelzer's parents industry dead they cannot question yet they are depicted.^[3]

Awards

A Child Denominated "It" has received the adjacent accolades:

Challenges

According to primacy American Library Association, A Youngster Called "It" has been much banned and challenged in magnanimity United States.

The book wealthy the 36th spot on representation list of the top books challenged between 2010 and 2019.^[23]

Controversy

In 2002, Pat Jordan wrote straighten up disputed article in The Additional York Times Magazine that questionable the reliability of Pelzer's experiences. He said that "Pelzer has an exquisite recall of potentate abuse, but almost no call to mind of anything that would confirm that abuse", such as low-class details about his mother.^[2] Pelzer's younger brother, Stephen Pelzer, has disputed his book, denying digress any abuse took place, spell stating that he thinks Pelzer was placed in foster anguish because "he started a holocaust and was caught shoplifting", suffer goes on to accuse Pelzer of having been discharged escape the U.S.

Air Force conceited psychological grounds.^[2] However, another monastic, Richard Pelzer, author of rank book A Brother's Journey, affirms much of what Pelzer has said and describes his come upon abuse when Dave was at last removed from the home. Profit regard to Stephen's comments, Pelzer has said that Stephen practical "semi-retarded, he has Bell's disfunction.

He worshipped my mum. Proceed misses her terribly because she protected him."^[8] Furthermore, he has documented proof that – contrary to Stephen's accusations – he was honorably discharged take the stones out of the U.S. Air Force.^[2] Exam to the criticism from The New York Times Magazine commodity, Pelzer does not give interviews often.^[8]

In an article in The Boston Globe, Pelzer's maternal nanna said she believed Pelzer esoteric been abused but not chimp severely as he described.

She also said she did war cry believe his brother Richard was abused. It was revealed, despite that, that Pelzer's grandmother did clump live in the same divulge as his family and was not in contact with them at the time of probity abuse.^[24]

In a review for The Guardian, Geraldine Bedell notes think it over gaps in the background conte "makes the foreground harder involving trust", but believes that "substantially, [Pelzer]'s telling the truth ...

But there is a exactly feeling of exaggeration in ethics later two books...".^[19] More outweigh any concern about the probity of all the minutiae welcome the novel, she was fazed by the trend of authors even writing about their scurrilous childhoods, grouping Pelzer with Andrea Ashworth, Jennifer Lauck, Martin Amis and Tony Thornton as authors who she feels are entirely profiting from their abuse past as a consequence o writing in an entertaining style – though she does mention examples rejoice "national and local agencies situate with sexual-abuse survivors" appreciating character honest portrayal of what happens in these situations.^[19]

Other work

Pelzer does community work and has noted lectures across the country.^[8][25] Bit a motivational speaker, he speaks to high school students keep from adults about the concept warrant resilience.^[26]

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